3rd November, 2020
Sarah Dillon who is the Head of Therapeutic Leads, National Association of Therapeutic Parents has written a thought-provoking poem depicting trauma reactions as Trauma Burps. The poem gives a little simplified glimmer into the complex experience of trauma, a must read for all foster carers or those who have experienced trauma in the past.
Trauma Burps
I’ve got a tricky problem
I call it Trauma Burps
and say some nasty words
They come up from my tummy
They burped out to my teacher
Cos she was in my way
Now I’ve got detention
But I feel too scared to stay
The Head asked why I do it and I said
‘I DON’T KNOW WHY’
She said I need to STOP IT
And now I want to cry
I don’t dislike my teacher
but her glasses make me wobble
That’s why I called her ugly
And it’s gotten my in trouble
Trauma burps are awful
You don’t know when they’ll happen
The adults say I’m ‘naughty’
And that makes me want to slap em
Maybe I have got them
Cos I’m rotten kid
I didn’t mean to say it
But the teacher said I did
Deep down in my tummy
I feel those dreaded burps
So mum said she would help
As they may be from past hurts
She gave me a big cuddle
And I felt the burpies pop
Perhaps I might believe
She can help to make them stop
She thinks I got the trauma burps
When I was very small
And they bounce round in my tummy
Especially at school
She’s going to tell the teacher
I’m not a ‘naughty lad’
I didn’t mean to say it
And burps are when I’m sad
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